These are the words I find swirling about inside of me whenever another wedding rolls around - and believe me, there’s been loads of them this year. Weddings bring a minute when a bit of eternity breaks into our earthly living and dying, when the essence of the God-Man taking a people into a covenant relationship is seen in some love-struck guy’s face when his dream comes waltzing down the aisle all gussied up in silk and diamonds. It’s a minute where we get a glimpse of the unseen, a peek into the future at the most momentous occasion in eternity. It’s when the Son takes His Bride, and when the Church utters the deepest commitment humanity has ever known how to make: “Till death do us part.” And then the Son leans in, grinning the smile that has captivated a universe for a thousand years upon a thousand years. “Except that I have conquered death, so actually nothing - ever- will part Me from you!”
This last week I found myself getting a further glimpse into the picture of the Son’s story that somehow seems to invade every last inch of human life. It’s another step into His story, another level of depth in my understanding of His emotions.
A dear friend of mine, Ryan, decided to make the plunge for the woman of his dreams and propose to his girlfriend Allison, also a very dear friend of mine. As I do a lot of my living and working and loving Jesus with both of these brilliant people, I found myself caught up in a romantic drama unfolding around me this week. Ryan’s sister Brittany and myself were scurrying about the few days preceding the proposal, helping Ryan pull off the perfect engagement scene. I think its the first time I’ve ever really had the privilege of seeing the proposal planning from the guy’s side of things. It was incredibly fun to see the great amount of thought and affection Ryan was putting into his plans to surprise Allison in the most loving ways he knew how.
Brittany and I were purely giddy with excitement over the mounting occasion, thrilled for Allison, and so proud of Ryan. We listened to Ryan spell out all of his ideas, then Brittany went shopping for the necessary pretty things, while I cooked up a fancy little breakfast. A photo album, a poem he’d written, her favorite songs, her favorite food, a shirt that said “Will you marry me?”, a photographer ...Ryan had thought of everything!
So early on the morning of the engagement, Brittany and I snuck over to the park to set everything up so Allison would be thoroughly surprised when Ryan brought her over. As we piled into the car with our arms full of goodies, we could hardly contain our exuberance. The sun was shining gloriously, and the morning was just perfect. Joy began to ooze out of my heart as we drove across Midtown, Kansas City to Loose Park. My heart burst, and the prayers started popping out of my mouth for the morning to go smoothly, for Ryan and Allison to experience the delight of the Father over them. I honestly hadn’t had such pure fun in ages, as I’d been having over the course of those few days of preparations.
It was on the drive to the park that I saw it. I saw how the Son has a perfect plan to romance every heart, how He thinks of every last little detail to convince individuals of His deep affection, how He is eager to twirl each one around in dance, and how He has already committed Himself to covenant relationship with each one. And then I saw that we who are already in His Family get the privilege of helping Him win them over. As Ryan’s sisters, Brittany and I had been extended the invitation to be apart of the whole incredible process. We gleefully agreed and proceeded to have a blast!
Evangelism is not a drudgery. It’s not a chore, it’s not a monotonous duty, it’s not a heavy task to perform. It’s not something to fear, it’s not something to dread. As friends of Jesus - as His closest and dearest friends - it is our deep honor and delight to spread out a feast for the ones He is looking in the eye and calling out to love. We laugh and jump around, we clap our hands with excitement, and we can’t even help it! We love Him, so we love that He is so infatuated and so faithfully giving Himself over.
After Allison said yes to Ryan’s long-awaited question, we threw a little party with much squealing, lots of jumping around, and many hugs. Over cake and coffee, they animatedly told their story, and the oohs and aahs and chuckles were going all around the table. I was sitting on the edge of my chair the whole time, even though I already knew how much of their went. I was on the edge of my chair, because it wasn’t just the story of Ryan and Allison being told. This is the story of a God-Man in love with the human race. This is a shadow of things to come. This is the story I am walking out... rejoicing with joy inexpressible!*
*1 Peter 1:8, NKJV
("...at the revelation of Jesus Christ, whom having not seen, you love. Though now you do not see Him, yet believing, you rejoice with joy inexpressible...")
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